who this event is for

this event is for all queer / trans people of gender expressions and identities who are ages 30 and up.

what we’ll do

see who’s in the group

we’ll start the night off by a quick intro where we’ll take a few seconds to introduce ourselves to the entire group so we can all see and been seen 😉

have 1:1 speed dates

we’ll then pair folks into rooms for 1:1 video dates so that you can get to know each other one on one.

You’ll only only have 4 minutes in each room, so don’t waste any time 🙂

connect with your matches

we’ll make it easy for you to connect with your matches, so you can continue vibing long after the event is through.

what you can expect

we are striving to create an environment for queer and trans folx – free of fat phobia, racism, ableism, anti-blackness, no trans-exclusionary radical feminist (terfs), no sex worker-exclusionary radical feminist (swerfs).

by getting a ticket to this event, you are confirming you are aligned with the environment we are striving to create.

we’ll have moderators on deck to help keep the event free of crashers and remove those who do not align with event’s core values – no questions asked.

please note

if you choose to donate, it would be greatly appreciated. all donations will go towards covering the costs of hosting the digital platform allowing event attendees to connect, and for the hosts time and labor in coordinating and moderating the event.

to donate, purchase a donation ticket.

no one will be turned away for lack of funds. send us a message for assistance.

queer in oakland and solistce are small organizations – queer, black, women-founded <3